Recently I was chatting with someone via email from friendster and it pissed me off so much that I decided to blog about it.
Here's the scenario :
Napoleon wrote:
hey...seem like u dont want to chat with me anymore in MSN... is that i'm something make u angry??
J a n i c e wrote:
Oh... where you get the idea that i am reluctant to chat with you?
Maybe I should have told u earlier. My msn messenger are likely to be on whole day, even for me not being in front of the monitor. Which is why I am most probably under AWAY mode. Sometimes, I really wonder if you guyz notice there's a status beside my nick? You can't be blind, are you? =P
In future, juz drop me a msg, or better still... email me in friendster =) I'll reply asap when I'm free.
Take care
- J a n | c e -
Napoleon wrote:
oooic..
of coz not blind ...but just wonder every time msg u also like send to a wall.......seem like u r puuting ur nose some where else...
anyway thx for ur reply...
had understand the senario...
:)
J a n i c e wrote :
Haha... You noticed the status mode and still you msg-ed me. How could a person reply when she's not around?
Sometimes I really pissed off with some chatters in msn (not you). As if they can't see the AWAY mode and kept nudging me like donkey whole day. How blind can they be?! Argghh..
Which is why I am very reluctant to gv strangers my messenger's email add - unless you're a really good fren. I would rather use the old fashion way to keep in touch, via friendster and email. That way, I could reply anytime when I am free. No hassle...
- J a n | c e -
And this time, he wrote me such long mail... Being sarcastic and yet act innocent! Bah~
Napoleon wrote:
just a simple question asking you is there anything make u angry n causing not getting reply from you..but u have write a very good n detail philosophy...(but felt that the way u talking is a bit rude ) maybe u r too confident to urself..or in actual u r usually talk like that??(personal opinion, pls dont mind) but personally i felt, it is not a good way keep on saying ppl blind, donkey...such a good words..it doesn't show that u r outstanding or elegant,in fact, its only make a strong comparison between ur out-look n ur behavior...totally not matching..the way u r talking is something like a @#$%&....Relex.!!..not a big deal wat..it is not worth just bcoz a simple thing but u hav show ur bad behavior to ppl..rite? learn to talk like ladies...it will always give u advantage in ur entire life...
FYI, some ppl may like to put "away " everytime when he/she online. it doesn't really show the actual status. ppl msg u is becoz they will tot u "maybe is around"...but wont know in actual is u dont want to chat or talk to that person...or really u r not around. but dont worry...it wont be happen again...this time get a reply with blind n donkey...donno next time might be idXXt... perharps the misunderstood was started earlier....only i'm not aware. :) sorry ye...if anyhing b4 tat i make u uncomfortable..
J a n i c e wrote:
Ha! I didn't know you were offended! Well sorry if you do, coz i made it real clear, that i was NOT refering to you - not that I didn't mention it. ::roll eyes:: Anyway for girls not to mention blind or donkey - how crappy that can be? It's not that i use any foul language or watever, duh -_-!! Obviously, you haven't been reading much on bloggers from the cyber world. Chill... =)
And I am not, never, did I said I feel I am superior or watever that running inside of your brain. And pls understand that I dun have to reply you in the 1st place if I think you are not up to the standard to chat with me. I have my ways to express my feelings and if you're uncomfortable with it, dun mind reading or even reply me.
I live my life for myself, not for others, and definately not for someone I barely knew from the internet. So there's nth that might disturb me from your post.
Peace.
- J a n | c e -
Napoleon wrote:
Now only i know you are that open minded..!!i keep on think that u r those conservative type which this n that also cannot mention in front of u..~~in fact u r not...this is great wat~~!! then next time those words donkey, monkey,chicken , chicks ,busted...should be no problem for u la?? at 1st i keep on observe u r which type..conservative??open minded??but cannot get the clear picture..coz sometime u r open, but sometime u keep on shocking me this n that... thx for introducing me the new Generation of cycber world!! really...i never n ever read blog blog tat u said..felt tat is wasting time..personal opnion ar..:)
of coz u r live ur life for ur own, but if the mouth can keep not so smelly is better wat..(pretty out-look + polite manner )but u r lucky...coz u r not pog chop..pog chop cannot ack like this..personal opinion also.. i hav learnt something from u now...ur confident towords urself is dam high..i hav to put more confident from this mins onwords...Gambateh~~!
J a n i c e wrote :
Yea... Maybe you should, starting from now. Seriously, I never came across anyone who mentioned that using words such donkey, monkey, etc etc were a kind of disrespect. It was meant to be a joke if you were to understand it properly. Like wat ppl said, if u dun understand, then dun mind answering. It juz makes you look stupid.
This has been a eye opener for me, to see the real you. Honestly, yea, I didn't wanna chat with you in msn on purpose becoz I felt you have nth to say but sex. And it is my choice for me to answer or ignore you. I really wonder wat would your wife feels if she finds out her hubby enjoys chatting 'bout sex with other girls.
Anyway, I really think we should juz leave everything here and put a fullstop to it. But you have given me something to blog about in my next entry. So thanks =)
Juz my 2 cents.
P/s : If donkey, monkey, chicken, chicks, busted are such foul language, why did teachers taught us those words in the 1st place? Duh.
- J a n | c e -
I still dun get it. A girl should not use words like blind or donkey to express her feeling?! Gosh this is so absurd. The words
are simply to add spice, to make something interesting to read. It's not that I called him a donkey or a jack*ss.
I am forbid to use words such as blind, monkey, donkey, chicks, chicken. But he has his rights to talk about sex to me?
Which is more disrespectful?
After this experience, I decided to inform those who have my msn messenger, please do not accuse me for being snobbish if
I dun reply you when I am under AWAY mode. FYI, my msn are on almost 24-7. You can't expect me to sit in front of the monitor
all day, do you?
And pls do yourself a favour and DO NOT nudge me like a donkey! Do you know how irritating it is when someone kept nudging you
whole day non-stop?! Yes Turtle (fren's nick), I am refering to you!!! But I pardon him la, since he is merely 16. He is really cute
and a nice fren to chat with - tho the nudging can be really irritating sometimes -_- Hey, this kid is in my VVIP frenlist. =)
P/S : Why did I use the word donkey? Becoz you nudge the person once, and if he's there, he'll reply. If he doesn't, most probably
he's not around, or he might be avoiding you. Nudging him whole day shows that you're stubborn and doesn't seems to understand
this simple fact.
However I reckon ppl on my list are mostly adults, no? So please behave like one and be a gentleman. And for god's sake, strictly
no perverts. I will not have any doubts to blacklist anyone who are juz looking for cyber sex.
PP/S : I'm sure he will scold me for calling a fren Turtle. Excuse me, but that was the nick he gave himself, not others, and
definately not me -_-
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